Hipnoterapi knowledge to children (hypnoparenting) is the means and the knowledge that "mandatory" is owned by each parent that success. Hipnosis process in the family happens to the children, actually happens every day without their parents realize. In science hipnoterapi, akan hipnosis process occurs when there is unsur-unsur/komponen in communication and / or a combination of elements (Rachel Copelan Ph.D):
* Motivation (a strong desire something akan)
* Relaxation (relaxed, rileks)
* Concentration (concentration, focus on something)
* Imagination (imagination of something)
* Autosuggestion (command)
* Peak Emotion (emotional high)
* Repetition (repetition)
components of the above, actually there are so many processes going hipnosis a "negative" that can be harmful to "the children", or hipnosis a "positive", for example:
* Playing PlayStation game long enough (elements of imagination, motivation, concentration, emotion), negative
* Event TV long enough, that disrupt the learning of the children (elements of imagination, motivation, concentration, emotion), negative
* Parents are often angry (peak emotion, repetition), negative
* The story before bed by their parents (of imagination, motivation, concentration, emotion), positive
* Educate the reading of (elements of imagination, concentration, emotion), positive
* Play your own game with the tools that educate (elements of imagination, concentration, emotion, Relaxation), positive
Current hipnosis "negative / blunder" that we often see is the result of communication with "negative emotions" to the parents of the children. Actual intention when parents communicate well and is already correct, but perhaps that is not appropriate, so that the children become understand. For example, is as under ini.Sang children learn a bit lazy, and parents always "ordered" to learn. The child would have serious and endeavor to learn.
Of course pembiasaan need to learn in this process. But because the results have not been "visible", the parents are still "rule" to keep learning, and even "often bristle and snap" of the child. In fact, parents often give "label" tone accompanied by a high voice: "You are very stupid, it just can not gini!". The children who actually have tried this, you will feel "stress" because it still dimarahi.
And will be "unlucky" again, if this process repeatedly, giving rise to image "hotheaded parents" from the perspective of the child (in technical language hipnosis called anchor) hipnosis In science, a fact not aware, the parents have provide "sugesti" (the entrance to the unconscious mind in the child), which contains elements of peak emotion, repetition and negative imagination. Seen that the attitude of parents is correct, the therapy is less true. But in the process hipnoparenting, in order to complete the process of therapy, which should diterapi is the children and parents, that is given the right education and communication techniques to use languages hipnosis positive.
Of course we must realize that the actual words of the parents to the children most is also the form of "words hipnosis" that can damage or educate children to a positive direction.
Hypnosis in Family
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